Do you ever wish you could just skip the games and uncertainty that come with dating and get straight to something REAL, something that LASTS?
If you’ve ever dreamed of lasting love with a powerful and exciting partner who is your ideal match—a real partner with whom you feel secure, understood, nourished, and appreciated for who you are—then this could be the most life-changing information you have ever been exposed to
Imagine knowing exactly what to do to find a man you are crazy about. A man who will do everything in his power to fulfill your deepest needs and desires simply out of genuine love for you—the real you.
Simply by reading this, you have taken the first step toward finding lasting love. You have decided it’s time to listen to YOUR inner voice, the one telling you there’s someone who is perfect just for you. Isn’t time to STOP settling for less than what you want from love?
You can find a man who is your everything: best friend, biggest ally, and spiritual soul mate. A man you can laugh with, rely on, and trust with your most intimate secrets. A man you can’t stop thinking about. A man who adores you exactly the way you are.
You already have the power to change the way you love and live forever, without changing who you are. You are the woman of his dreams. You simply need to know what steps to take, and in which order, so that lasting love is a reality and not just something that happens for other women.
Your past experiences with dating and love do not define who you are or the love you deserve to have. Yet most of us give our past the power to dictate our future.
You can take back your power and end the cycle of disappointing and unfulfilling dates and relationships once and for all. I have helped hundreds of woman do just that and now I can show you how.
If you’re a wonderful woman who keeps running into the same guys, same relationships, it is like rerun after rerun. Maybe they start out with a bang and then fade just as fast, or worse yet…. you take it slow trying to avoid falling in love too fast only to find that you are still not with the right man. You know the kind of relationships that leave you feeling like you are chasing, settling or worse off than before you met!
Maybe you’re a woman who is just starting to date again and you aren’t sure if you will ever meet “The One”. Are you having problems relaxing and having fun on your dates? Do you find yourself obsessing about how do I pick a good one, stay safe or where are all the good ones? Starting to date again can be the scariest thing in the world. Maybe you catch yourself worrying what he thinks of you, if your good enough, or how it will all end up?Fear NO MORE! Its not your fault but it is your responsibility to get this thing we call love figured out.
But I want to let you in on a little secret before we go any further:
You cannot expect to attract meaningful, lasting love and create a relationship that fulfills your every desire if you don’t HONESTLY BELIEVE it can be true for you and/or your self-talk tells you something different. Without these two critical elements in place you will keep attracting the wrong men FOREVER!
So many of us take one step forward and two steps back when trying to find lasting love because of our own self-sabotaging behaviors, or we just don’t know how to keep the good ones interested long enough to build a meaningful relationship.
Are you at your wit’s end, wondering if there is a way for your love life to start making you happy instead of being the source of so much frustration and hurt.
This is exactly why this program is right for you; I want to reassure you that this is not just another read it and forget it experience. I am so committed to making sure that you understand how to make love last for you, whether you are not dating at all or in one of those LONG term go nowhere relationships. I have clearly identified whom this class with help. If you can answer YES to two or more of these questions listed below, I can GUARANTEE you that you will walk away knowing exactly what keeps you stuck and how to free yourself so unstoppable love finds you!
Maybe you even realize you’re sabotaging your own dating success. Maybe you’ve read all the relationship books and dating websites, and what they say rings true, but they don’t tell you what to do about it. Or they offer one-size-fits-all advice that doesn’t really apply to your particular circumstances.
Aren’t you tired of reading all the “how to” relationship books and then wondering, now what?
I was too.
I know how it feels to be single again. Frustrated with how complicated and lonely finding intimacy can be, all while knowing that dating and finding love is one of life’s most rewarding and yet challenging quests.
I was married for 23 years, and after my divorce, I had no idea how to start dating again.
Dating had changed, I had changed, yet I felt afraid I would recreate the same relationships over and over. I was afraid of settling, or worse, growing old and dying alone.
Like you, I’m an intelligent, successful woman. In other areas of my life, I was confident, purposeful, and at the top of my game. I just couldn’t figure out why finding love and intimacy was so hard. So I read books on dating. I listened to audios, watched videos, and sought the advice of self-proclaimed dating gurus, but they just told me what I already knew.
They didn’t tell me what to do about it.
I was tired of empty affirmations and dating tips with no substance. I didn’t need “10 ways to make a man think you’re hot,” or “5 ways to get him to notice ‘me’ by completely changing who I am.” I wanted to genuinely connect with men, and I wanted to find love on my own terms, not someone else’s.
As a successful business and sales professional, I helped people every day. My client’s triumph came from proven techniques establishing clarity, overcoming obstacles, and communicating effectively to achieve personalized success. Then one day, I realized that I could use these same powerful techniques to transform my dating life.
Suddenly, I was dating with purpose. Men were attracted to my confidence—and best of all, I was asking for what I wanted and getting it. Now I’ve found the love of my life, and I know for the first time what perfect love really feels like. How EXACTLY did I do it? That’s what I want to share with you.
In Find Lasting Love, I’ll give you all my secrets, including the exact steps you need to create your personal love breakthrough—find and have the love you’ve always wanted and make it last!
You don’t have to settle for less than what you want and deserve from love anymore.
My personalized group coaching program will help you clarify and attract the love you deserve and crave and finally experience the freedom of being able to communicate what you want and get it . . .GUARANTEED. Join me for the next class starting this January , 2012 and I will walk you personally through my 5-step program.
Let me ask you this…
If you discovered the formula to creating irresistible connections with the men you date, how would this affect everything in your life? Would everyday life be more fun? Maybe work more enjoyable? Would your relationships with your family, friends, and kids improve?
If I told you that you could date with confidence, connect with men on a deeper level, and ultimately find a lasting, meaningful love while being completely and totally your true self, would you make it happen?
Would you decide once and for all that you will NO LONGER BE THE WOMAN that allows
Here’s the problem:
We are living our love life like an old story stuck on repeat. We are “programmed” to think that what we want in love is either too much or unavailable from a man that you would actually want to be with. As women, we are never taught to trust what we need to feel fulfilled in our relationships—for whatever reason we may need it. Therefore, we never learn how to ask for what we need from men and love, much less expect to have it.
We are conditioned to believe that having needs and being needy are the same thing. WRONG! As human beings, we all have needs. We would never question having the need to breathe fresh air, or to drink and eat, yet we question our need to feel nourished in a relationship, to be emotionally fed by our partner, to give and receive romance and intimacy.
Why? We have never been taught to recognize, clarify, and meaningfully share that we deserve to have the love we crave. As a consequence, we decide that we have to compromise, dumb down, or unfortunately settle for being alone.
Finding love as we define it is just too much trouble. We give up. Instead, we spend our time investing in relationships and situations in which we have more control: our kids, our work, our homes, volunteering, hobbies—even settling for men who don’t fulfill our needs just to tell ourselves we’re not alone. But sometimes being alone is less lonely than being with the wrong man.
You’ve been holding out on yourself and you haven’t even realized it.
How do I know this? Because I help women just like you every day, women who say they want love, passion, intimacy, romance—a relationship with a man that’s safe yet thrilling, that keeps them up all night too excited to sleep (among other reasons!). Yet these same women keep running into obstacles that prove too over whelming.
I know how it feels. I’ve been there myself. And I want to share my success with you. I can’t bear to think of other women out there who are struggling alone like I did when there’s such a foolproof, simple method for finding clarity and momentum in dating, and for ultimately experiencing love again—or perhaps for the first time.
But I did figure out what to do, and I can save you the agony of having to figure it out for yourself, or worse, never figuring it out at all.
Fast forward to where my love life is now:
I have met the love of my life, engaged and to be married this January, I realize that I had no idea what love even was before.
Every other relationship was just practice. Every fantasy I had about the man of my dreams was dull in comparison to the reality. There was a time when I would hit snooze five times every morning, when I would have buried my head under the covers all day if I could have.
Now I know how it feels to want to leap out of bed in the morning, not only because I’m excited to see him but because having him in my life has made even the moments without him a 1,000 times better. Even before I met him, I was having a blast dating. I faced each date with a confident bring-it-on attitude that spilled over into every aspect of my life.
Every date was full of the most wonderful surprises, and I made lasting friendships with men even if we didn’t click romantically.
By freeing myself from my own self-imposed barriers, I discovered parts of myself I never knew existed. As I was getting to know men, I was also getting to know a whole new athletic me, an intellectual me, a funny me, and a sexier me than I’d ever imagined possible.
I went into every situation with men knowing that I could communicate exactly what I needed and wanted, with no manipulation required. And without the game playing, you’d be surprised at how often MEN WILL GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to meet your needs and desires.
Perhaps most important, I finally felt worthy of the love I wanted, and this was reinforced when the men I dated confirmed how lovable I was, simply because I was letting them see the true me, without all the emotional baggage, the fear and insecurity, the defensiveness.
Let me save you from having to sort through all the dating advice that’s out there, advice I read until my eyes ached (and trust me, after a lifetime of frustrations in love, I was getting pretty sick of my eyes aching). I know how scary it is to be facing the big unknown of dating again, and I know how much it hurts to put yourself out there, vulnerable, only to be rejected again and again, or to attract men who let you down in myriad ways.
I could have saved myself so much pain if I’d known then what I know now. Let me help you skip over the hard part and get right into what works.
It sounds too good to be true. I know how you feel. I really do. That’s why I want to be completely transparent with you. I want to tell you exactly what the class will involve so you can see for yourself that I’m not just offering a few feel-good speeches or a series of one-size-fits-all tips.
Find Lasting Love is a series of 4 private group coaching calls with LIMITED AVAILABILITY to keep the class size small and personal.
The class runs for 4 weeks starting January 4th, 2012. Each class will include action items in writing for you to create your own personal dating plan for success!
In these calls, I will personally guide you in exactly what the title promises: how to find love on your own terms.
Discover this step by step simple proven system that allows the authentic you to magnetize the partner you truly crave and communicate at levels you never thought possible.
Experience the secrets that make dating easier and way more fun!
Stop the madness! Don’t you deserve to move from frustration to fascination?
STOP losing yourself in relationships!
Decide it’s your time to have the relationship that you REALLY want.
Q: What happens on the Q&A call?
A: I don’t want you leaving this class with any unanswered questions. In the Q & A call, I will answer the questions you have about what we learned in class and how to apply it in your specific situation. The Q & A ensures that you won’t walk away from what you’ve learned without knowing exactly how to make it work for you to create the dates you want and find lasting love.
FAQ about the class Find Lasting Love Now™
A: This class is for women who are dating again after divorce, loss, or breakup. If any of the following apply, this class is for you:
A: The class includes 4 private group-coaching calls and 1 group Q & A call.
Each call will go beyond information. Knowledge is power, but insight and experience are powerful. Each call personalizes what you learn to apply to your unique needs and desires, with step-by-step methods for transforming your love life one amazing date at a time.
A: Not if you don’t want to. You are welcome to just sit back and listen. I will not put you on the spot. If you want to contribute, however, you are welcome to. This class is customized for you. Come as you are. You’re safe to be yourself with us.
A: No worries! Every call will be recorded, so you can download them and learn on your time. If you can’t make every call (or even any of them), you can download the recording and still get all the information and action steps to start changing your love life right away. Plus, you’ll have full access to the forum and receive a complimentary copy of my latest ebook, What Makes You Special? AND you’ll receive free my article “5 Reasons We Don’t Get the Intimacy We Crave” as well as a collection of the most popular Q & As from Get Up and Date.
A: First off, this is not just “any” class. This is an Intensive Experience where I’m going to walk you through the EXACT steps you need to build an extraordinary dating life around your gifts. You’ll learn how to shine on your dates and be rewarded with unbelievable experiences, meaningful connections, and yes, the kind of love you want most deep down inside. You’re going to learn what makes you special, how to communicate your needs and desires in an authentic way that feels good to you AND to the men you date, and how to date and find love in a way that fits into your life (not the other way around). Second, I’ve been looking around to see what’s being offered by the myriad dating websites and coaches. I find it fascinating that so far, I have yet to see one that teaches you real-world strategies for creating amazing dates that lead to meaningful connections with exceptional men. Yes . . . finding love! I just don’t get it. What good is a blueprint, roadmap, game plan or any of that if you don’t know how to date in a way that gets you what you need? And what I love is that once you learn how to stop pursuing men and shift the energy so that the right men are pursuing you, you walk taller and attract even more ideal men, and the spiral just keeps elevating. I can’t wait to show you firsthand how to make this shift!
A: Payable by check, paypal or any major credit/debit card. So go reserve your seat now, and once you’ve moved forward powerfully with that decision behind you, then you can check out the class material and watch how easily it all falls into place to support your new love story!
Join other women who are in the same boat, navigating the often vast, rough waters of dating again after the end of a relationship. We can all learn from our shared stories, and we can gain strength to write new stories inspired by our potential to be far more powerful in our own lives than we’ve ever believed possible.
But the most important reason to join this class is not the comfort of camaraderie or even that I’ve been exactly where you are and can share what I’ve learned from experience. Although personal experience is valuable, evidence is even more compelling: The most important reason to join this class is that I will teach you practical, PROVEN techniques for changing how you love in ways that will forever change how you live.
Experience the freedom that comes from knowing you are in control of your own life, that when you turn the page, you will decide what happens next.
I used these same techniques to dramatically upgrade the quality of my dates, and finding love followed naturally. (Hint: It’s not about getting new clothes or learning a set of lines “guaranteed to turn any man on”; it’s about healing the internal wounds that dating reopens and changing your attitude about love and men so that you can release yourself from reliving the same old story—without this change in story, you cannot succeed, but I’m here to show you that it’s actually very simple). Without changing your story, you’ll stay stuck, walking in circles and replaying the same plot line over and over. And we both know how that story ends.
Just one great date can be enough to get your confidence back. But imagine having DOZENS of great dates and how much opportunity and choice this can open up for you to create a lasting, meaningful relationship.
This program is for you if :
It all starts again, Tuesday, January 4th, 2012—the first of a series of calls that will change the way you think about yourself, men, and love forever. After just the first call, you will begin to have insights into why your love life is leaving you frustrated, disappointed, even depressed. And you’ll see why this program is different. It’s all about acting on your insight, not waiting around for it to act on you.
This level of personal coaching would ordinarily cost more than $1,000.00, but I realize that in this economy, many women are simply not able to justify spending that kind of money on themselves. So I’m offering the ENTIRE class—4 private group coaching calls, with an action plan for each class, and a live Q and A session—all for only $199.
I guarantee that the techniques I teach will change your life.
I know that’s a big promise to make, but it’s not an empty one. They’ve already changed the lives of the many women who have come to me for help. All of them are from different backgrounds, all come to me with different stories, but all have the same bright future—a life of love, as they define it, on their own terms.
I’m not offering anything I haven’t tried on myself and found to work with amazing results. In fact, I’d have to be one cold-hearted woman to keep these secrets to myself when I know firsthand how scary it is to be single again after the end of a relationship, to be trying so hard to find love—to ACHE for it—and to put yourself out there in the face of rejection, time and time again. I know how it feels to think, I’m too old, I’m too busy, I’m not attractive enough, I’m not witty enough, I’m just not good enough to find the love I crave. But telling myself these things only hurt more, and they certainly didn’t stop me from wanting love—they only made me feel like I didn’t really deserve it.
But EVERYONE DESERVES LOVE…including you! Give me a chance to show “YOU HOW”!
Give yourself a chance to feel worthy of love, to feel confident, every day, for the rest of your life, in your ability to communicate your needs in a way that gets them met, to share your desires in a way that has men falling all over themselves to fulfill them.
We all have regrets in life. Don’t make missing out on this opportunity one of them.
I spent years learning a system of techniques that are SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN to help us learn behavioral and communication skills that, if used properly, guarantee success in all aspects of life. One of the key discoveries I made while learning this system is that all these self-sabotaging fears, beliefs, and thoughts are completely untrue. So here is your guarantee.
I’m confident that when you join “Find Lasting Love Now™ teleclass, you’re going to attend your first class and be thrilled. I also know that if you follow the steps and do the work, you will start creating the dates and love you truly deserve. Just to back that up, I’ll give you until the end of the second class to live with the work and REALLY decide if it’s for you . . . in your heart. If you decide it’s not for you, just let me know in writing before the third class begins and get a full refund. 100%! No reason needed.
I would beat myself up for being attracted to the characteristics in a man that I was attracted to, and she helped me see that there was a reason behind all of it. She constantly reminds me to be kind to myself. Lori got me out there dating again and was like that little angel sitting on my shoulder helping me along.
One of my favorite things from our work together, besides the internal revelations of course, is the “secret ninja stuff” as she calls it. Little things we all do but might not realize it … the subtle things that make you feel connected with someone, the “inside joke” type things. When you’re aware of it and are doing it purposefully, it’s pretty amazing. I consider Lori my friend and know she is someone I can count on. I have learned so much about myself this year. I am currently dating a man that while on paper, he’s not what I would choose, but in reality, he’s what I need at least for now.
Without Lori I would have missed out on this and would have still been interviewing for my husband, instead of treating each experience as a learning experience and to enjoy myself. I look back now on our first conversation just a year ago and what a different person I am. Not just romantic relationships, but family relationships and even everyday interactions as well. To say that I’m grateful is a HUGE understatement.”
“I had all kinds of reasons to keep putting off love. I could put more time into dating after I got through the next big project at work, or when I got home from the next conference. I would set up an online profile as soon as I got through all the family obligations I had that year. My daughter was having her first baby, and she would need my support. My mother was requiring more and more care.
Next week, next month, next year . . . I just kept putting off dating again and again. I actually met Lori at a conference for entrepreneurs, where she was a keynote speaker. We got to talking over lunch, and I was telling her how busy I was and that I would get back into dating as soon as I had the time. Then she asked me when I would have the time.
Did I plan to be less successful in the future, freeing up my time from my career? Did I expect my family to stop growing and to stop needing and wanting me to be there as much as they did now? I guess I’d never really thought of it that way, but I was kind of ‘planning’ to date only if my life went down the tubes, which of course made no sense at all. Then she looked me straight in the eye and said softly, ‘Barb, do you think dating will be easier five years from now?
Do you think you’ll feel more confident and attractive?’ It was a difficult truth to face, but it was also the wake-up call that I needed. Dating was not going to get any easier. And I didn’t really want to be alone. I was just hiding behind my work and my family because, honestly, I was terrified of dating again. It was this completely foreign world to me. And I dreaded feeling vulnerable and powerless.
But it was time to suck it up, and if I hadn’t had Lori’s help in breaking everything down into easy, manageable steps, I think I’d still be home every Saturday night—probably working—instead of going out. I guess I just never realized how easy and fun dating could be. I look back at myself and wonder, what was I afraid of? And why couldn’t I have met Lori sooner?!”
—Barb, Tampa, FL
“So I talked with Lori. I told her about the great love story I’d had with Henry, and the disaster I’d had with Dan. By the end of the call, she’d helped me reach an amazing insight. I was so afraid of dating because, really, I didn’t want another relationship.
I just felt like that was the whole point of dating. It was an interview process to find one man. But that wasn’t what I really wanted. Lori helped me free myself to pursue love the way I needed it at that time in my life. I wanted companionship and fun.
I wanted to meet all kinds of people and just enjoy myself. Dating didn’t have to be a means to an end just because that’s what’s expected of women. Dating could be the end in itself. With Lori’s help, I realized that I didn’t have to limit myself to either trying to replace Henry or being lonely. I had other alternatives.
Now I have a hiking partner, and another fellow who takes me to the movies every Tuesday night, plus three men I play poker with on Fridays. Then I go home and just enjoy my time alone, doing my own thing. It’s perfect. It’s what I want.”
—Kelly, Phoenix, AZ
“The best part was that she didn’t stop at dispensing knowledge. She didn’t just say, “Here’s the problem; you’re on your own.” Lori walked me step by step through what I could personally do in my specific situation. And with each self-imposed barrier I knocked down, my dates improved. And you know what’s funny?
I didn’t even realize that I wasn’t having fun on my dates until I started to! Then I was like, woah, what have I been doing all this time! My work with Lori and my dates ultimately led me to Jake, and our relationship is nothing like what I thought love should be—but it’s everything I want.”
—Rachel, Shreveport, LA
“My dates are amazing now that I’ve begun working with Lori on defining what I really want out of a relationship. I’m still going out on a lot of dates, but I’ve shifted my focus to quality over quantity.
Once Lori helped me to see that I was letting other people define love for me, and that this was why I was never happy even with dates that went ‘well,’ I saw an immediate transformation in myself, in the men I started seeing, and in how fun and meaningful my dates started to be.
It’s like I’ve been dating in the dark this whole time, and Lori came along and helped me find the light switch.”
—Lisa, Madison, OH
Register NOW and Receive These Valuable Bonuses: The first 10 registrants who pay in full will also receive a one-on-one 30 minute telephone session with Lori. Valued at $250!
Get immediate, focused attention that brings you immediate success. Feel the relief of knowing that you have the inside track to getting your specific problems addressed in the most rapid fashion. Easy access to the online group forum. Here, get your questions answered and feel supported by your fellow classmates. Network and join forces to have the dates and relationships you design.
Because this class will jump-start your thinking and give you both the momentum and the direction you need to transform your love life, you are bound to have a bunch of questions racing through your head in between calls. You probably would love to know what other women are thinking . . . find out on the forum 24 hours a day.
Ebook: What’s Special about You?
For most women, focusing on what makes us special is the hardest part of changing the direction of our stories. We’re taught to be modest and humble, even self-deprecating. Recognizing that we’re special is hard enough—having to dig deep to see just how we’re special in every unique detail is nearly impossible for some of us. But if you can’t see what makes you worthy of love, he won’t see it either. This ebook will walk you through an honest appraisal of your strengths and how to make the most of them on your dates.
Ebook: 5 Reasons We Don’t Get the Intimacy We Crave
Even when dating is fun—when we laugh with a man, talk easily about our lives, and have a good time being with him— something seems to stand in the way of the kind of deep connection we really want to have. What keeps our relationships from getting beyond the superficial? What can we do to get a man to open up to us and completely let his guard down without scaring him away? Register now for the class and find the answers to one of the questions most often asked of us at Get Up and Date™.